Hello and Happy Monday
This weekend, I had the pleasure of attending a beautiful wedding. The first formal wedding on this side of my family - what a blessing!
The sun was shining (a rareity in Essex), and there was a palpable sense of joy and excitement among the guests. As the ceremony began, the bride walked down the aisle, everyone watching in anticipation as she made her way towards her now husband.
As I listened to the bride and groom exchange their vows, I was struck by the power of their words and the way they were delivered.
Each word was infused with depth, their voices unwavering and sincere. It reminded me of the core principles of effective communication that I teach. Just like the bride and groom needed to convey their intimate feelings in a public setting, we all need to communicate our messages with clarity and emotion, whether we’re speaking to a loved one, presenting in a boardroom, or addressing a large audience.
At the wedding, the officiant’s ability to project his voice and articulate his words ensured that everyone present, from the front row to the back, could fully engage with the ceremony. This is a perfect example of the importance of vocal projection and articulation. Whether you are giving a speech or having a conversation, being heard and understood but mostly felt is crucial.
In our daily lives, clear and expressive communication is just as vital. Here are a few tips inspired by my wedding experience to help you enhance your own speaking skills:
1. Sustain the Energy: Ensure your voice carries by practicing speaking from your diaphragm. Expand in the body, allow the breath to drop in.
2. Be present with each word: Pay attention to your intention. Practice speaking slowly and intentionally to ensure each word is heard distinctly.
3. Connect to the language : Just as the bride and groom’s vows were filled with emotion, let your feelings come through in your speech. Connect with your material and your audience on a viceral level to make your message more impactful.
4. Preparation is Key: The best speeches at the wedding were those that seemed effortless but were undoubtedly well-prepared. Take the time to rehearse what you want to say, whether it’s a formal speech or an important conversation.
By incorporating these elements into your speaking practice, you can ensure your voice is as compelling and clear as the vows exchanged on that beautiful wedding day.
Let this wedding be a reminder of the beauty and power of well-expressed words, and how with the right techniques, you too can captivate and connect with any audience.
Have a fantastic week!
M x